The generals have a saying:
"Rather than make the first move
it is better to wait and see.
Rather than advance an inch
it is better to retreat a yard."
This is called
going forward without advancing,
pushing back without using weapons.
There is no greater misfortune
than underestimating your enemy.
Underestimating your enemy
means thinking that he is evil.
Thus you destroy your three treasures
and become an enemy yourself.
When two great forces oppose each other,
the victory will go
to the one that knows how to yield.
Lao Tzu - (Tao Te Ching, chapter 69, translation by Stephen Mitchell)
Everything happens in front of you is phenomena of black in you, so rather than make the first move, it is better to wait and see. Rather than advance an inch, it is better to retreat a yard, and pray for your black converted into white.
People who play your enemy's role are also here to grow their soul just like you.
Pray that light leads to them as well
In this way, if you haven't taken on black even though you are in black energy, that is the victory for your soul.
MYE